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Friday, April 24, 2020

What To Do Next?



Friday, April 24, 2020

These last weeks starting with March 13, 2020 when we crossed into Mississippi at Vicksburg on our trek East and the Ocean have been days and weeks filled with talk about what to do next. The fact that the spread of the coronavirus had led to the President declaring a National Emergency and the seriousness of it was just starting to sink in back then. The first decision was the hardest one and it was to not continue east where we would spend time with friends but to turn north. The last decision was to stay in place in Corinth, Mississippi for at least the month of April which is quickly coming to a close and it is now time to decide and answer the question, what to do next.

We both know what we want to do and that is go back to Michigan stop for a couple of weeks by our son and his family and then continue back up to the UP and spend time with our daughter and her family. That is what our hearts want to do but the reality does not coincide with that want.  For one thing every place we have called in Michigan is not sure when they will be opening because they are not sure what the Governor is going to do as far as opening the state and what will be allowed. Then I spoke to someone at the Chamber of Commerce in Escanaba and I was told that all RV parks in Michigan are all closed no exceptions.  The whole issue for Tom and I is not that we cannot stay at home it is that the home needs a place to park and we are not alone in this.There is a very large segment of our society that no longer own sticks and brick houses. They are fulltime RVers and we are not just talking about retired people like us, there are families and young couples who live this lifestyle. Plus, I am pretty sure we are not the only ones who consider Michigan our home and come back for the summer months. (Yes, we are in fact registered residents of South Dakota. We no longer own or rent property in Michigan and,  therefore, we do not have a street address in the state and a post office box is not considered to be a legal address. In order to vote and do banking you need a legal street address and South Dakota is one of the states we could legally do this through a mailing service. At the same time both Tom and I are lifelong residents of Michigan and the UP will always be home.) It is not just parking but we need to be able to get water and quite frankly we need a place to dump our grey and blank tanks. Even though we do have solar and a generator on board being able to plug into electricity is also a plus. So we will continue to make calls and see what we can come up with to get us closer to where we want to be.

Side note: That is not to say we do not feel very lucky to have found the place we are at. As I have mentioned before it is a small clean well kept up RV park ,and we feel safe here. Well to be honest the whole tornado thing is somewhat scary but so far we have been lucky weather wise.  One good thing for us right now is we do have the option of staying here for at least another month which is also something we are considering.

It rained here starting Wednesday evening and throughout the night. Thursday started under cloudy skies but the sun and the blue sky kept trying to join us and did succeed at times. Though we did have brief moments when the rain did rejoin us but mostly as sprinkling showers.

While we were eating dinner Thursday evening the view of the clouds and the sky as the sun was setting put on a nice show. That show included a rainbow and as we sat there I kept thinking that would make a good picture. The rainbow was mostly gone when I got myself up and opened the bedroom window to take a few pictures of the sky around us. Below are those pictures.. I like them all so I decided to share them all.










Today, Friday we mostly had sunshine and white fluffy clouds floating by earlier in the day. As we got closer to sunset the sky clouded over completely. So  far no rain but looking at the radar I can see it is coming our way and it looks like we will have rain tomorrow. Our days as I mentioned in our last post seem to melt one into the next. The daily chores of life cleaning, laundry, cooking continue as before. The last couple of days we added phone calls and RV Park research into the mix. Like always most days we speak to at least one of our children and get an update on their lives. Plus, it is always nice when one or more of the grandchildren takes the time to talk with us.

So for now we are living our days and there is joy in being able to spend this quiet time together. Yet at times there is a sadness that seeps in when we think about the fact that we are not where we expected to be with our children and grandchildren. Logically we know we cannot change what is; but our heart still wishes we could.

In the meantime we are thankful that our children, grandchildren, family and friends are safe and healthy. Plus we are grateful to be able to say we are safe and healthy. Our sincere hope is you can say the same thing about yourself and those you love.






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18 comments:

  1. I was so glad to hear from you. All those storms going through the south had me worried. Here in Arizona we are going to be hitting some records - heat ones. Going to be 105 Sunday and Monday. We aren't planning to head north til the middle of June so hopefully things will be open by then. And hopefully by then you will be home with family.

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    1. We have been very lucky and none of the storms have come through here. Though they do seem to get a lot of rain which means it is very green.
      I certainly hope everything is open by the middle of June. Take care.

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  2. We feel your heart aches, but very happy that you, Tom and your family are safe and healthy. Ontario has allowed camp grounds to open to full timers after a news story about a couple who were allowed to stay in their park for their two weeks of quarantine and then told they had to leave. They had to leave their trailer and go into a motel. Fortunately it was only for a week and they get to back to the trailer in the park. Governments did not thinking this through, I can see not opening for weekend campers, but for full timers, where did they expect them to go.Hope Michigan soon sees the light and opens up to you. Take care and stay safe.

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    1. I am sure you are feeling some of that same heart aches. I think all of us that go south for the winter, as much as we love it, by the time spring comes around we are anxious to be "home" and see family and get those hugs.
      Tom and I read that news article about that couple. Then we heard the government there had made the changes so that was good news. Every state is different here and luckily Mississippi did leave their RV Parks open. Hopefully, Michigan will see the light soon. Take care and stay healthy.

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  3. The full-timers were completely forgotten about, that is for sure. As Bill said, our government has smartened up and I hope yours will too. The news story was very sad. We are just as safe in an rv (maybe safer because of distance between units) as in a house. It's ridiculous. My vote is that you stay put for the month and do lots of Face Time with the children and grands.
    It has to be really hard to not be allowed where you want live. :( Hugs.

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    1. I would agree full-timers were completely forgotten. When Canada said come home they did not think a lot about where "home" would be for all the snowbirds. I, also, agree we are just as safe inside our RV as in a sticks and bricks house. I know when we had to move out to have the repairs done we did not feel good about moving into a motel. I am glad your government saw the light and made the changes they did. Hopefully, by the middle of the May things will be open in Michigan. For now we are here for at least two more weeks. Hugs

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  4. Ditto to the above. Besides this year springtime is way behind in our region so UP would be on the cooler side and not as comfy as where you are presently. My hunch is that it will be still very warm come November and December so perhaps you just adjust your stays. Keep healthy and be optimistic.

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    1. That is true about the weather this year up north for sure. If the weather makes that kind of a change it will be something to think about. I actually decided today to look at the bright side and be grateful for all the positive things. Always good to get the reminder, thank you. Take care and stay healthy.

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  5. Deb I would start calling RV parks and explain your situation. I've found every one I called is open for business, in spite of everyone saying they are shut down. Give it a shot. There's no reason you can't drive home. I'm doing it ... and haven't had a single problem. There's the same number of vehicles on the highway as usual, stores are open and I was never even stopped at the state border.

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    1. First of all I cannot believe they did not stop you at the state border what if you had fruit or veggies your were trying to sneak in what were they thinking...lol
      We were really glad to read on your blog you made it home safe and sound with no problems.

      Honestly, we are not worried about the drive back to Michigan we are confident we would find places to stop for the night in a rest area, Walmart etc...which is what we do when we are making miles.

      Since, I wrote the blog we have had a wonderful offer from friends of a place to park with power and I am sure we could get water. Basically it all comes down to being able to dump. Tom and I have been making calls and we are hearing the same thing. Until the Governor decides to open up we are not opening. We will continue to make calls but at the same time we made the decision to stay here at least two more weeks.

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  6. Wise to stay where you are but just continue watching the weather.
    Hopefully you'll be with your family soon.
    Be Safe and Enjoy the solitude.

    It's about time.

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    1. Today's decision was to do just that.
      You and Kathy stay safe and healthy.

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  7. I like Marlene's comment. I don't know when you usually leave Michigan. But wouldn't it be nice to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with the family and also enjoy nice weather. May God bless whatever decision you make.

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    1. Thank You, Elva. It is always nice to be wished God's blessings.
      The goal is to leave in early fall before the snow. We have been caught up there twice in the snow not fun. It certainly be nice to spend Christmas with all of our family.

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  8. I know after a month in one spot I'd be ready to move somewhere else. Even if you can't make it home, maybe a new park headed that way? I can't believe how fast the months are going! Hopefully things will be opening soon, and you can see those adorable grandchildren in person. Take care...hugs!

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    1. I cannot believe that the time is going as fast as it is either I thought for sure the month would really drag. We are ready to move but until we have a place to move to we are staying put. Well at least for two more weeks. We are hearing that some parks may be open in Wisconsin so that is a thought if something does not change in Michigan in the next couple of weeks. Seeing children and grandchildren in person would be nice. Take care...hugs

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  9. Glad things are well with two. This will be over soon and you'll be on your way home. Weather is still very cool so don't hurry to go north. Take care.

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    1. We sincerely hope you are right and this will be over soon.
      Glad to read you made it home safely and hopefully by now you have the White Lion parked where you want it. You and Dolly take care and stay healthy. Plus, hope to hear from you once and awhile.

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